Friday, 20 June 2014



 I attempt to retain some sort of authenticity within myself by keeping parts of me natural and pure although small, they still remind me of who I am in truth because when the make-up and weaves are stripped down I'm nothing but a simple girl in pursuit of acceptance, belonging and admiration. And in manier times acceptance, belonging and admiration are easily attained when one is beautiful.  

It always humbles me whenever I see an untainted, incorruptible, virtuous version of me, the effortlessness of it all is so “whole”-some and beautiful. It pleases me to still have the ability to recognize myself in my dull plainness and still find my imperfections so perfectly appealing. 

Despite what many of you may think, I’m more than my elaborate hairstyles, my wearing of gold jewelry and my fine apparel. My heart and gentle spirit are hidden only to those who choose not to see with their hearts but their eyes.

 I do not live on beauty; beauty does not sustain me because it is evanescent!

Don’t get me wrong, I love being beautiful but I realize that whenever I’m “made-up” I risk being viewed as a superficial materialistic imprudent young woman with no substance.   (Assumptions are very cruel and unkind).

Pretty hurts and beauty is never enough.

My feelings on this may somehow dispel many of my realities and paint me out to be a hypocrite but then again I’m a spiritual being living in a complicated physical reality and our realities are not always what they seem to be.

We are not meant to be perfect, we are meant to be whole.

I am in truth whole and enough.

Friday, 23 May 2014

On The Run Tour Video Promo>>>>>>>>>>> Jay Z and Beyonce

This is why Jay Z and Beyonce remain my favourite couple in the music industry, this  video promo is just spectacular! many call it  acting i call it love and on this promo one can actually see how much they are inlove with each other regardless of their recent scandal. this couple is not perfect by any means but together they are creative geniuses that never ceases to amaze.

Wednesday, 21 May 2014

Fashion Obsession>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Neo Kgolane

I really struggle with finding well dressed men to feature on my blog. Men who are fashion daredevils, confident and who dress so impeccably that they make you as a woman want to dress better and present yourself as elegantly and as sophisticated as you can possibly be, well that was before i bumped into Neo Kgolane's instagram profile.

Neo Kgolane describes himself as Lover of fashion, junky for style, and says he needs rehab for his addiction but judging by these ensembles this is one fashion druggie i can live with! actually we need more of junkies like him.

  Be sure to check Neo out on:  Instagram: neo_kgolane                                            Twitter account:Rudeboyreloaded  and Facebook: Neo Kgolane 

Wednesday, 14 May 2014


i cant think of any song that is more appropriate than Fashion Killa by ASAP ROCKY and i love the fact that he used a true real life Fashion Killa in this video, the fashion forward, experimentalist and fashion provoking  RIHANNA.

Friday, 9 May 2014

Woman To Woman

My sister recently posted the most profound quote on her facebook page. it resonated so much with me as a young black woman in pursuit of success, that i had to share it with you guys. She wrote:

"The most important thing I have learned is that there are no limitation to being successful As women we feel that If someone else is successful that some how that takes away our opportunity to have success! It is the opposite. You create your own success and it is out there waiting for you. We can all make it."

Thursday, 10 April 2014

Fashion Obsession>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Kefilwe Mabote

Kefi Vogue Styles 

I'm  totally in love with this woman's style, she's elegant, classy with abit of edge and her bold fashion choices just makes her stand out but then again with a body and face like hers one can never go wrong.
 i just love her.
 Please check her out on Instagram: Kefiboo
                                  Twitter: Kefiboo and  Facebook: Kefi Vogue Style