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DEAR SIXTEEN YEAR-OLD ME

DEAR AYANDA
You are a progressive thinker, straightforward yet complicated and overly sensetive but with reason.......if i didn't know you well i'd say you are rather uptight but we both know that you are just you.

You are a motivated individual who understands that in life if you want something you have to put yourself out there and fight for it, nothing will simply come to you and for that i admire your clear consciousness of how the world works .....it has really  helped me alot.

Your stubborness and strong sense of self will make you a better woman don't loose that its the true essence of who you are and what sets you apart from the rest.

One lesson you are still  to learn is you can't change other people, you can only change how you respond to them.

P.s there is nothing enlightened about shriking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.

Kind Regards
 ME MYSELF AND I
As i was browing through the latest issue of Marie Claire curiously going through thepages i came across the most intersting feature 'A collection of letters written by the world's biggest celebrities to thier teenage selves, which made me wonder what i'd say to my younger selve if i could drop her a note and this is what i came up with.

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